May defined

As I sit here listening to the rain fall, I started to think about all of the things I have accomplished already this year. It's hard to believe we are already almost halfway through 2015. I know I am pushing it but really, its May 13th already! I have been keeping a happiness project and May has been kind of undefined. May is a month of adjustment for me.


There is patience to be learned everyday in my new surroundings. I am doing the best that I can.

It also shows how much love I have for R. He is my world and I want to do anything I can to help him get things back on track. Using all of the skills I set for myself each month has allowed me keep calm and stay sane. I have started a wellness journey where I have learned to meditate and practice yoga to help ease my mind. I  have met some new people who make my life better. I have become more organized and learned how to keep a proper planner.

May, may be a month of adjustments, but I feel like I have all the tools I need to get it done. I have grown so much this year already that facing new challenges as these are not going to scare me. I feel healthier then ever and my head is clear. I can make decisions and not feel guilty or confused by them. I can stand up for myself and not feel guilty about it.

It's going to be a great month, and I can't wait to see what June has in store for me. We will be moving into a beautiful new townhouse with lots of land and just enough away from town to feel like we are in the country. We will be 10 minutes from everything yet have a quiet neighborhood. I can't wait to share it all with you as it comes!

I hope you all are having a great May and are feeling accomplished! Happy Wednesday :)


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I'm a year old!

Whew! What a crazy couple of weeks it has been! In case you haven't noticed, The Trish List got a new look over the weekend! (Jenn over at Business, Life & Design did an amazing job!) We grew up.. sorta. May 1st was my 1 year bloggy birthday and with all of the craziness going on in my personal life, I neglected to celebrate my first year of blogging. I am so proud of myself for sticking with this and writing even when things got tough. I would often have moments when I thought "Do I really want to continue on?"


I am so glad I decided to keep writing for you all week after week. I have met so many wonderful people and learned so much from each and every one of you. As all bloggers point out, this can become a full-time job on top of our full-time jobs, whatever they may be. We put lots of sweat and blood into these spaces. Hours are spent on writing, photographing, exploring, editing, and reaching out. I couldn't of done it without all of you! My readers, fellow bloggers, and innocent bi-standers. You all make coming here and writing daily fun and enjoyable!

I can't wait to see what year 2 has in store for me and for all of you. I have lots of ideas and things I keep promising and then push back, but now that things seem to be slowing down for a few weeks I can get some of this stuff rolling! I am always looking for ways to collaborate so please feel free to reach out if you have any ideas!

I hope you all have an amazing Monday and week to follow. I will see you back here Wednesday! Keep on keepin' on folks!

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Wellness Wednesday: Acupuncture

It seems as though the cold was enough to knock me down for a few days, but today I am back to talk about being and staying well. I recently learned a medication I was taking was the cause of my rapid weight gain even after I questioned my doctor about it. The answer was always the same. No the medicine is not your problem. Your diet is. That's great and all but I was barely eating at that point and I was still packing on the pounds.

I have since stopped the medication but I still needed to deal with the reason I was on the medication. A friend recommended acupuncture. I have completed 2 sessions and I have to say I have already noticed some pretty great things. First thing I noticed were my menstrual cramps were non existent. On my second visit I was way into a full blown cold. The points she used eased up the sinus pressure and helped the cold along. It calmed down quite a bit after that.

When I went into my first session I wasn't sure what to expect. I am not a fan of needles by any means. After taking my history I was instructed to lay down and relax. The needles were very tiny and but I can't say I didn't feel them. There was a little pinch and then at times it was a little uncomfortable if I moved. I rested with the points in for 30 minutes. I was told that depending on what's going on in your body the points could be intense, which is that uncomfortable feeling I mentioned.

All of the points were removed and I only had a little bleeding on my forehead. Later that night I had a little soreness where some of the points had been. The next morning I felt back to normal. My second session was still intense but no soreness after. I am looking forward to my third session this week.

Have you ever had acupuncture? What was your experience?


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